Flowmom, about the LL, that is what I wonder...and I don't know how I can do acts of service for WH right now since he is not living with me and he is "living" with OW!Cooking was one way I was doing an act of service.
BUt I am thinking that he might be doing acts of service to get affirmation, and I have been giving him affirmation so I hope that is on track!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004