Phew,CW, I'm glad that my suggestion wasn't ridiculous--so will you be over at your DIL's with H and the kids?

Okay we need to help you brainstorm ways that H could feel needed...it's not just fixing stuff,right?

Actually what is funny is that tonight my WH just tried to help me with 3 different things-I did not set any of these up on purpose. They were:
suggestions for TV shows I should watch, I told him that I needed to find a good medicine for my cold and he gave me medicine (but would have just told me if he didn't have any oh him), and set up lights in the kitchen. Oh yeah and I asked his opinion on something S needed.

By the way, CW, you really seem optimistic and positive! I try to be as well...it makes life easier to tackle!

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004