Good luck today. I am sure those first few interactions after knowing your spouse wants out are tough, especially since you don't want out. Just do the best you can. Focus on the girls since all of the interactions are because of things for them, and just go with the flow. Be who you want to be, and you will improve each time.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
Mishka, weird in a way. Last week, I'm not sure what day, I got a letter from an attorney that wasn't mine or W's. I tossed it in a drawer.
In between parent/teacher conferences I was cleaning out my mail and figured I should open it.
It was a solicitation letter. It read, "I understand your wife has filed for divorce" and had a court case number. She was hoping to represent me.
I tore it up and called my aunt and started driving to the second parent-teacher conference. I couldn't look at W. She looked at me several times, but I just looked at the teachers or the paperwork in front of me.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
Did you ask your W if she filed to confirm it? In Canada, you have to be served, and until that is done the case can't progress (which means if the person had a change of mind, they could not serve it, and then close the case)
