women "can't help" but be sexually attracted to an alpha male. Sorry guys! We just can't help ourselves! Yeah, he may be a jerk, he may never truly love us, he may be a horrible father, he may be someone we would never choose as a friend. But do we want him to take us in a totally masculine show of fluff and cocksure feathers? Hell yes, we do.
Please speak for yourself DQ, not for all women. I disagree with what you said above.
There's a joke among men about this, which is that it totally depends on if the woman finds you attractive. If you exhibit a totally masculine show of fluff and you're drop-dead handsome, many women will swoon. But if you exhibit the same over-the-top totally masculine show of fluff and you're short, bald, fat, with a sweaty pudgy face and a reedy thin voice, you're a total gross-out lech!
Which kind of gets to one of DQ's points. Since women sometimes have very different tastes in physical characteristics of men, men have to take a RISK when they behave a little outrageously with women. And some women sense that and admire their courage, as if they don't care what the woman thinks. That is, they aren't intimated and "too careful" to FIRST try to figure out if the woman is going to like it or not.
This also gets into the topic of flirting, where one step-wise tries increasingly bold things in a context of humor to gauge reaction. But that would be a thread of its own.
