Hi, Bunny,
Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
I'm still reacting to my H past behavior, and he's not even here...
Glad to hear you're normal!

Sounds like you've got one great mom & D has one great grandma. This is and will continue to be so good for D, especially now.
Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
Bottom line- Things are getting better, but I have got to start talking to D more honestly. If she asks, I will answer, H's rage be d@mned...
Do so. But consider telling her that your talks are confidential and that that confidentiality, while it might be considered a burden, is far less of a burden than her finding herself in the middle as an unwitting go-between.
Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
To the LBH's- what will it take to wake him up to that fact? I left him, and he gladly helped me out the door... frown
You do deserve fair help. Hearing it from your L will wake him up to that fact.

You sound good. Calmer. Stronger.

Last edited by Gardener; 02/26/10 03:58 AM.

Gardener

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With fruit, with weeds even; but gather them
In the one garden you may call your own."
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