Doing The Work with the Facilitator was THE most painful therapy I have done. The amount of weeping is impressive.

Thought for tonight: she (o/w) has taken over my whole life.
an hour and a box of kleenex later:
She has taken (well, she didn't kidnap him, he went willingly) one guy.(who's going bald, I might add)
She didn't take my job. My friends. My work with the rescue squad. My work with the opera house. My running. My cats. My sister.

It was a tough hour. But I think worth it.

I didn't realize it, but The Work website has a helpline. So you can call and get help walking thru the questions for free. I might have to check that out.