My apologies if I misunderstood what I thought J3B's thread was for and posted there in error.
OP, bless you; you're right. SA, the reason I dragged your post over to this thread; was because I did not wish to disrupt Jack 3 Bean's thread; his contained a particular question..and other questions were hijacking or dragging it off-topic, which can be confusing to the newbies he meant that thread to target.
I was being considerate of Jack...most of the time, I'm a well-ordered person(and I did say most of the time, LOL!), and certain things belong in certain places, even on forums/messageboards.
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Thank you so much for your answer. I didn't find this bb until about 3 months into my sitch. I truly believe the Lord led me here to learn the lessons I needed to get through this. He brought us all together for a reason.
The Lord works in mysterious ways; the Bible says that "Seek and ye shall find, knock, and it shall be answered." Many things are contained within His Word, but I also believe that He utilizes other tools besides the Bible to help people. Otherwise, I probably wouldn't have shown up in the first place. I agree with your assessement wholeheartedly; I, too, was around 3 to 4 months into my situation when I found this board; and the people here were wonderful to me. I had just been bombed a short while before, and was trying to find answers. It was a strange way I found this place; I was running a search on the internet for help with MLC, and this board popped up..so I came here; feeling like I was supposed to come here. I was nowhere near where I am now, in the present day in growth. I stayed on for awhile after I was on my way, to help others for a time until it was time for me to leave and make my own way. Had NO clue that I would write as much as I did; or contribute all that I contributed to help ease the hurt of others who were in the SAME boat as me. I probably should be in "Piecing" BUT..the Lord instructed me to come back here, and so I did; who am I to question Him? I just follow His lead, where ever it takes me.
The Lord has used me over time, and will continue to do so until the time comes for me to leave again.
Remember, as each person is different, every MLC/Transition is different..what works for one may not work for another. Most of the time it is trial and error for ALL involved.