I agree, I think you handled yourself very well in the meeting with your W.

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When we disagreed about something today she asked me a question that I would not give her an answer because it was not relevant to the conversation.


This is a fine line. You have to know if you are sticking to boundaries or if you are being stubborn and unconciously trying to make her pay for hurting you. You may be right about the question not being relevant, but just bear in mind that this is the woman you love and you do not want to appear mean spirited. (Just wanted to throw that in.)

You can expect her to be angry for quite some time. She probably would never have left you if she wasn't mad. It will take her time to get over it......if she ever does.

It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!