On top of that, no, I do not agree with her choices. But they are her choices and I need to make my own choices for me and my girls.

My girls will be fine. They will see through my W if she doesn't straighten up her act. D12 already does without any help from me. As D8 gets older, she will to. It will be unfortunate for them and my W if my W continues to do the things she does. But that is for her to choose.

I will do the best I can for me and my girls. I will make mistakes. I am not perfect. No parent is. But I will do my best for their sake.

If God wants this M and family to come back together, then He will make it happen. But I am not going to sit around and wait anymore to see if it happens. I will accept whatever direction God leads me in and do my best to fulfill what is asked of me to the best of my abilities.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...