If you really want some different stuff to read over, look up my sitch. I posted some resources there on detaching, questions on what I want and other things I was thunking about.

My sitch is different to yours because as far as I could determine my W was not cheating... and I dug deep and drove myself crazy to get to that point.

EDIT: And FYI... I filed first to protect my interests and to remove the threat she had been holding over my head for some months. I also filed once I had my ducks in a row.

Last edited by Gnosis; 02/26/10 01:59 AM.
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