I apologize for being so blunt, SC. My intent is not to cause you more pain. And I have admitted many times on this forum that I have little respect for WAWs. I'm talking about the whiny, bored, selfish WAW who is disrespectful, dishonest, deluded, etc. To me, these are emotionally stunted people who refuse to seek help for their problems, real or imagined.
I mean, we all have our problems, but to wallow in childhood "issues" and then use that as an excuse to inflict pain upon a spouse is cruel, manipulative and sick beyond the pale.
Isn't it interesting at how selective they are about who is the recipient of these lovely antics? Would they pull this crap on their boss? A good friend? Or are they ever even directing it toward the persons who caused the "issues" in the first place? And does wallowing and picking through their past really help them? NO! They want the luxury of playing "the abuse card" ad nauseum.
Fine. Stay stuck and whine, you ridiculous WAWs. Enjoy!
And for the record, a WAW is not someone who leaves if there is addiction, physical abuse, or other risky behavior. That is a healthy, legitimate response to an impossible sitch.
Boredom, temptation, becoming middle aged, "wha-a-a-!!, my life didn't turn out the way I wanted" are not legit. That is all on her. And it is so lame!
You deserve better.
One of the BEST posts I've read here.
Last edited by luvless; 02/26/1001:48 AM.
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