newmama, it doesn't sound like you're in a stage where dating would be helpful to either of you. I'm no expert on LLs, just curious whether he was doing for you what he would want done for him?
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.