I did something really stupid today. I had taken out three GAL books from the library and left them out in my bedroom, intending to put them away in a few minutes. Just as I was leaving the apt., H said that he was going to move a large piece of furniture that was in the bedroom and he actually had to move the 3 books:

Getting Naked Again: Dating, Romance, Sex, and Love When You've Been Divorced, Widowed, Dumped, or Distracted

The Surrendered Single: A Practical Guide to Attracting and Marrying the Man Who's Right for You

Bittergirl: Getting Over Getting Dumped


Just doing my research! But H could see it as an invitation for him to date and have an A frown . And he might even think that I put them there on purpose. UGH!!!


me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
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