I have been seriously job hunting but over the past week I have slacked off. With every convo she and I have she always asks me if I have found a job.
If you get a job then she won't have to pay you support will she?
Q9 you need to sit and think about EXACTLY what you want. Write it all down in lists... the pros and cons of EVERYTHING. Re-read your thread. If you want think that you can forgive her infidelity and want to stay married that's fine with us too.
Bottomline: You need to DECIDE on what YOU want to do. Then you need to come up with a plan to do it.
Whatever you decide it's going to require you standing up to her in one form or another. If you can't do that then you're sunk because she won't respect you. Without that respect you have ZERO chance. Women don't want pushover doormats for husbands. They want strong, decisive men who have principles and who are not afraid to stand for their values.
YOUR DECISION IS YOURS ALONE. No one can tell you what to do.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
