I probably contradicted myself in the last 2 posts. I am equally responsible for the illusion that was set. I should have said no given the situation. But I lay at my W's feet the situation that occured after which crushed the illusion.

Either way, had I just said no, D12 wouldn't have been crushed when W pulled her usual crap in front of D12.

I happen to think now that it is not in my girls best interest to give illusions anymore only to have their hopes and expectations crushed right after.

Kevin

Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...