GonnaGoBlind,

Let me share a little secret with you.

I am 33 years of age and didn't learn to drive until I was 30 years old. Very un-alpha male I know!

Here in Australia I drive around with green P (provisional) plates on my car which is usually the preserve of 19 and 20 year olds, and my mates make fun of me for it. So what?

Originally Posted By: GonnaGoBlind
This seems to be quite common. MrsGGB, I've found, responds a whole lot better if I exhibit alpha male behavior in the bedroom. A whole lot better. It still feels very uncomfortable to me though.


Driving used to feel terribly uncomfortable for me. My wife would be sat next to me and I would fail at trifling things like reverse parking, lane changing, turning at intersections etc. It was excruciatingly embarrassing but I persevered.

I'm so glad I did! Driving is now very natural and comfortable for me, but I could have gone my entire life without ever learning how. That would actually have been the more comfortable and easier option.

I had to learn the alpha male attitude and behaviours from scratch too but that's a whole other story and it was a long time ago now. But again, it's now very natural and comfortable for me and I couldn't imagine being any other way now. Too much positive feedback in the form of a sexually receptive wife wink.

You will become more and more comfortable with being an alpha male the more you do it, not just in the bedroom but in life generally. You will be a much happier man for it.

GH31


Me: 46
W: 46
T: 23
M: 20
DS12
DD11
DS5

W left: 01/28/08
Discovered OM: 02/26/08
W back for 9 days: 04/08
W returned 05/21/08
EA/PA - 01/08-07/09
W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)