NM- I do not think that your idea totally sucks! I think you might be right! I just posted that my DIL has invited H to their house this weekend so will let her do that and I will come up with something to fix...may have to break something!!!! The acting as if is something that I have been telling myself just to help myself get through this but maybe it is time to act that way with H too...carefully and slowly!


M48 H53
M16 T18
S16 D13
SS30
H drops bomb PA/8-30-09
H leaves 12-30-09
D filed by H 2-10
H asks to come home 4-11
Piecing