CW, how about doing something like act "as if" he is going through a phase and it's temporary...just brainstorming here, but maybe invite him over for dinner with the kids and then play a game after? And mention something that needs fixing, etc?

I don't know if it could be something like the kids could make the meal and invite dad...

I hope this idea doesn't totally suck! It's just a 180 of NC. different tunnel?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004