Thanks Robx, I couldn't agree more with everything that you said. I'm sorry if my question came off as naive or wishful thinking or something else but I was just trying to discern if there has been a pattern with WAWs after they walk away just like there is a pattern before they walk away.
I'm not sure but was your post what people commonly refer to as being hit by a 2x4 on this site? Is so, then thank you. I am working on me and trying to detach and let her go to do what she wants to do and I am loving when I am with her and tell her how proud I am of her accomplishments through this tough time. I know that everyone's sitch is different but like I said I was just looking for any kind of common patterns in a WAW.
Thanks again,
Ken
Me48 WAW46 M24 yrs S24 D21 D19 EA disc 6/09 2nd EA Fall 09 I move out 11/12/09 W and I switch 1/14/10 D Filed 3/17/10 W moves in with OM 6/8/10 D Final 6/21/10