PS: go back to your first post on this thread.
Note what you wrote about her. What she complained about.
Until you fix that, she's not going to be interested in you.

Until you FIX that.
Not "promise to fix". not "in the process of fixing".
But until you FIX it, and it is done.

(stable job, stable person)

If you really want her back, you are in for a long road there.

My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle