Hi Quart, You specifically asked me to drop by here, so I'm doing so. I cheated a bit,and only read the first page, and last page, though
Sounds like you're already getting some great advice! go with it!
The only thing I have to add, is about something you asked me about, and something you wrote higher up:
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I'm positive that if I don't petition for D first (which I'm doing the next week) I'll get the notice soon that she has done so.
and.. . if you get the notice from her? So what?
This isnt high school. this isnt "well YOU cant dump ME, because I dumped YOU first, so nyaahh!" There are no imaginary points for filing first. If anything, you lose points, if you actually care about the marriage. It will come back and bite you if you file first.
File for divorce, only if you Want Her Out Of Your Life. It's not something that you should play games and strategy over.
That's my opinion, but i'm sure there are plenty others
