Holy Crap! Didn't expect THIS!

[Trixi]

You need to tell HIM that too, flat out. Now or never.
If he wont step up now, he never will.

Thanks for checking in! I feel daft-- I mean, I get it in theory, but not in practice. Like say "Dude, it's been a week now, we need to make decisions..now!" He asked for me to give him some time and not pressure him since he already feels overwhelmed by everything....

What sort of stepping up to do you mean?

What would that look like??