Don't forget the other end of the spectrum- sometimes the WAW is waiting for her LBH to have his "Ah-ha" moment...
As a soon-to-be walk away husband I have so many walls built up that while I'm sure there will be an a-ha moment for my wife, I know it won't change anything.
I'm so angry at her that once I get her out of my life and minimize the damage to the kids that I will never take her back. I will never get over this.
That's sad, I know, but I'm being realistic. I will never believe anything she says. I will never trust or love completely again.
Just the way it goes.
You're still emotionally invested based on that one statement, you won't be getting her out of your life anytime soon, trust me.
You are no where near detached and it's a process and you're still pretty early in your own.
Stop being angry, let go of the resentment, start focusing on you and improving you and your own life and let go of the need for your spouse to be anything other than what she is right now.
