Don't forget the other end of the spectrum- sometimes the WAW is waiting for her LBH to have his "Ah-ha" moment...
As a soon-to-be walk away husband I have so many walls built up that while I'm sure there will be an a-ha moment for my wife, I know it won't change anything.
I'm so angry at her that once I get her out of my life and minimize the damage to the kids that I will never take her back. I will never get over this.
That's sad, I know, but I'm being realistic. I will never believe anything she says. I will never trust or love completely again.
Just the way it goes.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation