for the ladies out there, I am developing this opinion for men whose wives have walked away...There is a double standard for men and women that I think the LBHs should take advantage of: it's ok for the men to DATE!
It is too risky for wives to do it though.
ladies, what do you think? I wonder what Helen Fisher would recommend to men who want their wives back?
Newmama, I fully intend to start dating after my move [roughly 10 days]. By dating, I mean dinner, movies, coffee, etc. Not sex w/OM. My H is having a full-on A. If he can't handle the fact that I'm dating, while he's been f*&king some tramp for months, then H can go pound sand.
In my case, I need to start hammering H's jealousy button. H is generally not jealous type, but does get a little possessive when he feels threatened. Even tho H is w/OW, think he still feels like I'm 'his' - despite the fact that he doesn't want me [right now], he doesn't want anyone else to have me either. My job is to show him that although he doesn't want me, there are plenty of OM who do.
Make sense?
M & H: 40 M: 5.5 T: 7.5 OW: 7/09 Bomb: 9/09 Sep: 3/10 H files 7/10
