Hmm, this thread adressed a question I've been getting at in my own. I've never been the alpha-male/pursuing type with (x)W other than the 'rare occasion'. And now that we're near reconcilled, the only complaint is that she has practically begged me to be. Maybe not alpha male, but certainly more aggressive. I fear if I don't, she'll may back to OM or find another one if I don't come up with something.
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11
