This is a fantastic list and I totally agree with the content and refer back to it all the time. However, it doesnt tell you how to deal with kids in this situation. How do I DB when I am also trying to do waht is best for my kids and my H just thinks I am being a b?tch. I am not the one using them as a pawn - he is.
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