If my W is having an PA, but she won't confess, can I asked to see her cell phone. I don't have any hard proof. I asked her to give me proof she wasn't because she insists she is not. (my gut says otherwise)She's convinced I have something bugged. I think the story about making up a story hopping I would "hear" is complete B.S. Not only that but it took her a couple hours to come up with that idea. Enough time for her to call her girl friends and figure out a good story. Why would she lie about it if she is so dead set about getting a divorce. I told her I couldn't be hurt anymore than I already am. What kind of game is she playing. I don't want to go and follow her around to get my evidence but I may have too.
If she wants to get divorced so bad why is she dragging her heels? I don't mind her taking her time, but if she is going to have PA why drag this out? What is she waiting for. I told her she needs to do all the work and tell me what she needs on my end. She has made little effort other than lashing out some random list of things when she gets angry at me. I'm very confused. It seams like she wants to make sure I'm around just enough to satisfy her needs. She seams more interested in my life than I do hers. Is this a good thing or a test?
