What if you let an attorney at your office handle it? In fact, why not put together an offical separation agreement? Then you can just blame your attorney. "I know, H, but that's what attorney recommended. What can I do?"

Since he treats you like a dumb blonde, pull out the dumb blonde and use it to your advantage. Acting like a dumb blonde gets me out of stuff all the time!

SD

Me: 40
H: 43
H had EA from 2/06-9/06
Bomb 5/06
Piecing since 9/2006
3/2008: Boundary setting
7/2009: Boundary crossing~dropped my own bomb.
8/2010: Marriage finally on track!