On a more positive note...here are some things I'd like to concentrate on:

* emotionally absorbing that I've been dumped
* getting legal advice
* dealing with my brutal procrastination issues with my work
* continuing IC
* continuing to work on my appearance
* learning to flirt and practicing it
* helping kids with emotions
* figuring out some vacations and getaways
* exercising

me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4
current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp
.: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.