flowmom | shifting from devastated to rebuilding

[lea74]

My H keeps forcing me into mediation, but I have yet to go. Like you I just dont feel emotionally that I will managed and dont want to make a mistake that could effect my sons and my life.

Wait until you are ready. In the meantime I am consulting my L, a costly expense that I cant afford, but I have to get this right for the next 12 years so I am prepared to pay a little more now if I have to.

Anyway I am not sure how it is there, but here agreements made in mediation can be changed and could end up in a L visit anyway.

I have been told and it is true - there is no such thing as a amicable D.