I just realized...I think this all stemmed in me from the little green monster and knee-jerk distrust based on the last year or so...
I suspected he planned on going to OW for his March break and since he blew off his visit with them in December to see her, I think in the back of my mind I expected him to do so again...
He *was* an awesome father to my kids.. 100% involved up until a year before he left.. then not so much... now barely the every-other-weekend visit...
I resent the distancing though I know the reasons and that he's the complete opposite of the man I married...
OP-absolutely right.. I was doing great with detaching.. gotta get back on that ASAP...
Thank you Cat04 and Old Pilot...
Climbing back on my GAL horse...
~ This Diamond now SHINES!! ;-p ~
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