I am madly attempting to salvage my kids at this point. Period.
They will feel contempt, resentment and fear because you are enabling this behavior in your home. You are not doing anyone (you, your wife or your kids) any favors with your current course of action.
I would get some IC for you and your kids. Your wife and their mother behavior is very damaging.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
