I believe he was happy at one time dont ever doubt that......my cousin's husband also had a love child....2yrs old....they never would of known of that but his teenage daughter borrowed his cell one day saw all kinds of texts to the O/W proclaiming his love for her and it hit the fan....he told my cuz he wanted to stay with her and if she wanted he would never see the child again......till this day they are still working it out.....i pray for them daily because this is a very hard thing to go thru...even worse now another child is involved.... My husband wanted me to file for divorce but I never have.....I AM SURE his new G/F want to be the next Mrs.so far nothing and I am not filing.......