That's an interesting take on the matter. I can tell you're a fan of No More Mr. Nice Guy, eh?
My wife needs to put forth a reasonable effort at providing a home for our children, at least half time, whether or not we stay together (and I have no faith that she'll be able to settle down enough to keep me). She's starting to be declined for further credit, so this is helping her to *hit bottom*.
If she can do this, then she is welcome to play me for three more years, at which time our daughter will be about to graduate from High School, and my son will be ending his junior year. At that point in time she'll be on her own. I have been pretty open about this at different times over the course of our marriage.
I don't care about her as a wife, and have absolutely no interest in a romantic relationship with her or anyone. I am madly attempting to salvage my kids at this point. Period.
M:40 W:40 2 teenagers ILYBNILWY: 09 January 2010 soon to be walking away my situation