Haven't really done that. I've got so many balls up in the air it seems right now - I am kind of in a "survive each day" mode. Pretty high level - but its literally where I am. I have constant to-do lists - paint the new apartment, continue cleaning up house and filing important stuff, disposing of others. I should do what you are suggesting for sure though. I can honestly say again here that signing the LS papers and moving into apartment just days apart - really was a huge emotional low for me - as prepared as I tried to be. So - really just trying to keep myself together and be positive, which is hard. Maybe when I'm feeling a bit better about things, I will be ready to start on establishing those goals. I have my 12 survival steps to continually remind me to stay strong staring at me at eye level at my desk, and copy of them in my pocket. Guess I just in a bit of an adjustment period now after moving out......
Me: 48 W: 47 M: 25 years T: 30 years S24, D21, D11 Bomb dropped: "Not in love with you" 10/09 Separated Feb 2010
