And if I can bitch slap a few new users around, heck I'll do that too! ;-)
Heck some of the newbies even like it!
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
She has asked again for an extension obn the time. I'm not into that. I asked her calmly what her solution was and it was seperation even though she wouldn't say the word.
"Why would I accept that as a solution?" was my response. "There isn't a reason I just thought maybe this time." She said.
I waited and said " What this time? I'm supposed to believe you this time?... what you don't admit to yourself W is that this is it, you knew it would be it if you did what you did and well you did it. How many chances did you think you were going to get?"
I ain't playin, short of a miracle she can cry all she wants now. I am not putting up with this SH*T anymore.
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
remember, calm, cool and confident, the ball is in your court now and she knows it, you don't need to come off as a controlling a$$hole, in fact the opposite is even better, you're happy, you have assumed control of the direction in your life, let go of the resentment, it's no longer necessary.
Robx, sorry I'm a little late to this dance, but for the record, regarding that post??
And actually, that's a "4+" on the Puppy's Highly Coveted Whistles Award, because I've copied and pasted it, labeling it "Robx's Approach," into my own archives, so I can quote you later.
remember, calm, cool and confident, the ball is in your court now and she knows it, you don't need to come off as a controlling a$$hole, in fact the opposite is even better, you're happy, you have assumed control of the direction in your life, let go of the resentment, it's no longer necessary.
She has about half of her stuff out of here now.
The hard part for me is the kids, parttime with my own children is still hard to swallow.
I started taking apart our bed lastnight after I thought she left. ( she had been moving all day) She came back in and Said she wanted to make the bed! I said don't bother it's going bye bye. She said why, I said i want to remodel this room and master bath to my liking. It will help remove any of the feelings that linger on this side of the house.
She said that I wasn't looking at this situation the right way. I told her I was looking at it the way I needed to look at it - OVER, time to move on and stop being messed around on by someone.
She says " I don't think it's over, maybe for you but not for me"
WTF everybody is she just trying to pin it on me now?
M43 W43 D11 S7 M18 T20 WAW is back & trying (no she was lying) Close to callin' it busted but.... watching Whatever the outcome - It was a choice.
She says " I don't think it's over, maybe for you but not for me"
WTF everybody is she just trying to pin it on me now?
You've been around these boards long enough to know what that is: OMW has probably kicked him to the curb. VERY expensive for him and probably your W doesn't look as attractive as she once did. He's busted. W is busted. No A-drug for the addicts. Now the reality is hitting home for her of what she is losing - "A drug" fog lifting and she is having the 'oh sh#t' moments. Expect to hear more of this.
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Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
