Hi IRMAC...funny but my H told me that's what he used to do..he would just be quiet cause he didn't want cause more tension..WHAT?

My H told me last week that he is more loving now...that his sister even commented to his mom on how he's changed..that he tells her he loves her when he leaves and he tells his mom (who is 73). So, basically he wasn't happy with me and therefore would be why he never told them he loved them while we were married...

It wouldn't have anything to do with the fact he now feels guilty and we just found out he has a 10 yr old son he knew about all these years but chose not to tell us....uuuggghhhh!!! Whatever!

My kids say he says things to get to me or to get back at me for having such a wonderful relationship with them while he barely has one with them...I mean really....he didn't even come see them during Christmas..he chose to spend it with OW and her family....

Last edited by Treese; 02/25/10 06:56 PM.

Treese

H 49
M 45
D 23, D17, S12
M 25 T 31
01/07 OW H at my door w/proof
Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07
Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass,
Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9
11/08 pos.paternity