HB- Thanks for your perspective/thoughts!

I kind of gathered that once a divorce happens, its hard to tell what will occur in the future. I think H has to go through this in order to "grow up"...Just really stinks in how it affects the girls.

So heard from H today in response to kids schedules/info I forwarded to him.

He mentionned D12's text to him and said that although it was painful for him to read he thought it was just as painful for her to share with him.

He offered to take her to a meeting for her summer Australia trip...I don't think he gets that she is STILL mad at him and doesn't want to be around him...but oh well. I'm sure he'll figure it out.

H stated he hadn't slept well last night and has a migraine today. He hasn't had migraine's in years so I wonder if his life is not a peaceful as he tries to portray. He doesn't sleep when things are bothering him (guilt)...

He mentionned not wanting a judge to determine the fate of our children and hopes that we can work things out in that regard...(Does he think I want a judge to determine anything?)..

Kept my response neutral with more kid info to share. I sympathized about his migraine and wished him a better day.


Last edited by kjensen; 02/25/10 06:55 PM.

M44 H46 T21 Married 16y
D14 D12
Bomb 12/08(EA), (PA/Separation)1/09 to 5/09
Home/MC 5/09 to 12/09
Leaves 12/09 Files for Divorce
Divorce final 6/30/10.