Exactly. Here's the thing: if someone is in an ongoing, unrepentant affair, there are only a few types of conversations/communications they can have with their betrayed spouse, and ALL of them are cheeseless tunnels for the BS:
... Puppy
Excellent checklist there pup... mb28 one day soon you will be able to come back to read someo f your posts after this is over and you will be saying :
"Man I can't beleive i let him get away with that..."
"Man I can't believe I told him that... that was useless"
"Man, I was doing all the wrong things for way too long.. I put myself through a lot of needless pain"
You will get there sometime... we know its hard, and we want to help ya... Just do what you can to avoid him at all costs until you two are in a healthier dynamic.
