WAH in MLC with PA

[DiamondGirl]

Thank you for your feedback and direction.

I've been working on the controlling thing but need to be more conscious of it obviously..

One of the problems in our R was the lack of boundaries. And I wasn't raised in an environment with healthy ones. So I've been trying to work on mine now... But I'm not sure on how to set them with people without setting them off..

I'm not taking the email exchange as anything other than another learning opportunity. At this point no matter what all his anger for everything going wrong with him is directed at me anyway... it's just hard to take sometimes when all you want to hear is positive from him...

I think OW told him to watch what he says as I probably was printing the emails out.. (which I am in case I need them.. but I don't want to need them...)