Honey,

They are hard to see when you are in the midst of the emotional struggle....It is ok...

The goal, while admirable, is probably a long way off...and won't be achieved by continued interactions like this one...

But, as you stop your part of the conversation, eventually, the goal may be able to be reached.


"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox