I didn't prepare myself for this long road. I did read the success stories (there are many of them) and it just appeared that the W of the LBS returned far more often. But considering LFW comments on statistical reports,. I may have do more research on this topic.
Trapt, the one thing I have been guilty of is "no patience". So I guess by virtue of being a wmoen, I have failed in this area.
I believe change happened only internally within our R. We literally spent all of our time together when not working, didn't spend anytime with friends, or doing the hobbies we both enjoyed separate from one another. When I think back to when we both enjoyed being together and were happy, it was when I engaged in activity that pleased me (not necessarily him). He indicated the same thought once before he left our home.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."