The probelm is Maynard, YOu are in these married women's facebook accounts.... what are you gonna tell THEIR husbands when their husbands ask you about that?
You are already compromising someone ELSE's marriage when you keep contact with former partners... these women can't focus 100% on their marriage when YOu are in their facebook account... I wouldn't want that on my conscience.
When my wife was having her affair she started emailing a former partner from university too... its blatant lifeboating...
When they see a ship sinking, people have two choices :
1. Help bail water and repair the damage 2. Scout for a single seater lifeboat in secret and jump ship when it comes within swimming range
When marriages run into bad weather, people have those two choices too... when YOu sign up on someone's facebook you are putting yourself up as a lifeboat for these people...
I am NOT saying dont be in anyone's facebook, but I AM saying former partners should NOT keep in contact, its a VERY HIGH RISK to an affair and it puts marriages as RISK...
BOTH parties need to cut teh chord... when EITHER of them makes a long term commitment to someone else
Glass mentions in her book that one of the HIGHEST risks to affairs is meeting or keeping in contact with former partners.
YOu will be tempted to contact these women now.. I guarantee you will think about it if you haven't already...
Cut the chord and protect their homes and their childen.
