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In your case part of that is also the validation that you're desirable to a member of the opposite sex. It does wonders for your self-esteem.


Even just having female friends, online or IRL, will really help you to heal.
It will not help you to stay friends with your W! Not healthy...

And I suggest that when it comes time to divorce and
split up belongings, DO IT QUICKLY...it will cause less pain and help you detach sooner!

(((maynard)))

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004