Originally Posted By: Allen A


You are not helping your case at all when you engage in unhealthy contact.

Here's your unhealthy cycle in a nutshell :

1. You want to save your marriage
2. He calls you
3. You pick up
4. You two fight
5. HE feels justified in cheating and exploring divorce

Back to step 1 again.. it will NEVER END

You need to BREAK that CYCLE by NOT picking UP.


Amen, ditto, and HALLELUJAH!!!


Puppy