I HATED signing the Decree. BC I didn't agree with the phrasing.
"BOTH parties agree that the marriage has deteriorated, yada yada yada, to the point where it cannot be restored."
Actually, pal, I thought it COULD be restored, but you refused to even try!! At first I felt like a liar signing it because I didn't believe our marriage could not be restored.
But then I re-framed it in my mind. Because he was NOT willing to make any efforts to change, it was true. Our marriage could not be restored since I was the only one trying. So then I was able to sign it...