Getting Ready For Divorce

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Mindfull:

I hope both A and B are the case, and I hope she's taking me seriously, finally.

Last weekend she told me that I was "bluffing" when I told her I had seen an atty. I didn't bother trying to convince her and simply left it at that. I think she is believing that I actually have seen someone at this point, and I hope she's received advice as well.

I know she has been intimate with her boss at work. Her boss is either married or recently divorced and I don't expect this to go anywhere (her new boss is something of a player type, and she's just someone he uses, as I hear it).

I don't know who she sees at "the gym" or how serious it is, and don't care, but it seems as though that's her main distraction now. I don't know if he'd disappear with her if I served her and the reality of losing the house set in, but that's my worry now.

It's not easy to consider the possibility of raising two teenagers all by myself, with no help from anyone. My family lives in Alberta (hours and hours away from me) and all she has is her mom, a gambling junkie who is not the most stellar example of grandparental excellence.