Are you sure it is a good idea ..... to ignore this? ....not at this point. You know there are signs that something is "not right". Most of the guys here have been shaking their heads for a while. Now is not time to look the other way Maria. I am concerned that you do not trust him. Of course with all you have seen and read that is more than normal. The fact that he is not doing what it takes in my opinion to regain your trust does not help. Listen Maria, I do not want to add to your negative feelings. I think some things need to be said here however.....hopefully for your benefit and that of others. If your H goes away for a week and comes back and seems "distracted".....there is cause for concern. Again I am going with what you are writing here...I can't believe that he would have the stones to be smoking with someone else at the airport...where you work.....
