Think about it this way... there's plenty of wink wink, nudge nudge up here and still I've been feeling down. SOmetimes it seems that that's all there is.... I guess I want the emotional side of things LOL Oh well, working on it slowly. I'm with zoo here. I too had a bad feeling about that perfunctory ILY that I sometimes got, and yes also my thoughts would go off by themselves, but I did make the connection as well... if Rui is tired, or late for something, or stressed about something that's when it comes out.. and when I think about it, it makes sense.
ANyway sending you a big hug nightshade
"Each and every one of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought and the gift of understanding. "